DOES MY FRIEND SECRETLY HATE ME?

Mar 11

I know that the title says friend but this can be anybody in your life that you hold in high regard; a friend, family member, collegue.

Always, and I mean ALWAYS trust your gut instinct. Our bodies have a way of sensing danger before we can identify it ourselves.

You don’t really know what goes on inside of the mind of someone else. You don’t know what plagues them at night. You don’t know what traumas they’ve endured that they keep locked away. Sometimes people have their own inadequacies that they are dealing with. Although you can sympathize, it’s not for you to figure out why…it’s for you to protect yourself and get the hell up out of there.

Far too many times, we keep ourselves in these toxic situations for the sake of loyalty or what ifs. I always say having an envious or jealous friend isn’t something to play with. It could get downright scary.

I remember watching a video of these girls who took their friends on vacation out of the country. They were literally stabbing their “friend” in the back..blood was surfacing through her shirt..it was a really heartbreaking thing to see. All of a sudden though while watching the video, I envision that being me laid on the ground and my friend being the one with the knife doing that to me. The scarier thing at that moment was that it was their parent showing me the video! Very eerie. I knew I had to leave that friendship soon after...I didn't want to wait to find out anything.

Never should you feel unsafe by someone you are supposed to trust.

Cain and Abel.

I always say that jealousy and envy are not inherently bad…It’s the way its handled. whenever i’ve compared myself to my friends or others…I always reflected on myself ..I've always taken it out on myself..not that that's a good thing but its better than taking it on my friends. It meant there was something that I lacked that I wanted to improve.